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Does the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (SCRA) stop a divorce in Virginia?
No, the SCRA does not stop a divorce from being filed or finalized, but it does allow active-duty servicemembers to request a stay (pause) of the proceedings if their military duties materially affect their ability to participate. To obtain a stay, the servicemember must submit a written request to the court along with a letter from their commanding officer confirming that leave is not authorized and that military service prevents them from appearing in court.
If you are a servicemember stationed at Marine Corps Base Quantico, NSF Dahlgren, or Fort Belvoir, receiving divorce papers can be a source of significant stress, especially if you are currently deployed or preparing for a change of station. Understanding how the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (SCRA) interacts with Virginia family law is essential for protecting your legal rights while you focus on your mission. The SCRA is a federal law designed to provide a legal safety net for those on active duty, but its protections are not automatic and they do not apply to every aspect of a domestic relations case.
This guide explores the specific protections offered by the SCRA in the context of Virginia divorce and child custody proceedings. As a Fredericksburg family law attorney with over two decades of local court experience, Shawna L. Stevens helps military families navigate these complex legal waters with clarity and compassion. Whether you are seeking to stay a proceeding or ensure that a default judgment is not entered against you, knowing the limits and requirements of the law is the first step toward a secure legal outcome.
What is the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act?
The Servicemembers Civil Relief Act is a federal statute that provides various legal and financial protections to active-duty military members to ensure they can focus on their service without being distracted by civil legal matters. Under 50 U.S.C. Section 3901, the purpose of the act is to provide for the temporary suspension of judicial and administrative proceedings and transactions that may adversely affect the civil rights of servicemembers during their military service.
Who is Covered by SCRA?
Protections under the SCRA apply primarily to active-duty members of the five main branches of the U.S. military: the Army, Navy, Air Force, Marine Corps, and Coast Guard. This coverage extends to officers of the Public Health Service and the National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration when they are in active service. Families throughout the Fredericksburg region, from Stafford and Spotsylvania to King George, Caroline, Orange, and Westmoreland, have relied on Shawna L. Stevens PLLC for over 20 years to explain these jurisdictional nuances.
Active Duty and Federal Orders Requirements
To qualify for SCRA protections in a Virginia divorce, the member must be on active duty or within a specific period following their discharge. For National Guard and Reserve members, the act applies when they are called to active service for a period of more than 30 consecutive days under federal orders. State-level active duty for National Guard members typically does not trigger federal SCRA protections unless specifically provided for by state law.
Protections for National Guard and Reserve Members
National Guard and Reserve members often face unique challenges when transitioning between civilian and military roles. If a member of the Reserve is activated and served with divorce papers in Stafford County, they must verify that their orders are under Title 10 or Title 32 of the U.S. Code to ensure SCRA applicability. Shawna L. Stevens PLLC regularly represents members of the Reserve who need to balance their service obligations with their parental and marital rights.
Common Misconceptions: What SCRA Does Not Do
The Servicemembers Civil Relief Act does not provide a permanent shield against legal obligations or stop the divorce process from moving forward indefinitely. Many servicemembers mistakenly believe that the law allows them to ignore a summons or avoid child support while they are deployed. In reality, the law is intended to be a shield for those who truly cannot participate in court, not a sword to be used to delay legitimate legal responsibilities.
It Does Not Stop a Divorce Filing
A spouse can file for divorce in Virginia regardless of the other party's military status. While the SCRA may delay certain hearings or the entry of final orders, it does not prevent a spouse from initiating the case at the Fredericksburg Circuit Court or any other local jurisdiction. The court will still recognize the filing date, which is crucial for determining the date of separation and the valuation of marital property.
Stay Requests Are Not Automatic
One of the most frequent errors servicemembers make is assuming the court will automatically pause their case because they are in the military. You must affirmatively request a stay under the SCRA to receive its benefits. If you do not formally ask for a pause and provide the necessary documentation, the Virginia court may proceed with the case, including making temporary decisions about custody or support.
Support Obligations Remain in Force
SCRA protections do not eliminate or suspend your obligation to provide financial support for your children or your spouse. While you may be able to delay a hearing to modify or establish support, you cannot simply stop paying. In fact, each branch of the military has its own internal regulations regarding the financial support of dependents in the absence of a court order, and failing to meet these obligations can lead to military administrative action.
How to Request a Stay of Proceedings in Virginia Courts
A stay of proceedings is a temporary pause in a lawsuit, and under the SCRA, a servicemember is entitled to an initial stay of at least 90 days if they meet specific criteria. This stay is applicable to any stage of the divorce process, from the initial separation agreement negotiations to a final hearing on equitable distribution.
The Written Application Process
To request a stay, the servicemember or their attorney must submit a written application to the court. This application must include a statement explaining how their current military duties materially affect their ability to appear and stating a date when they will be available to appear. In Spotsylvania County, for example, this motion must be properly filed and served on the opposing party to be considered by the judge.
The Role of the Commanding Officer's Letter
The request for a stay must be accompanied by a letter or communication from the servicemember's commanding officer. This letter must state that the member's military duty prevents them from appearing in court and that military leave is not currently authorized. Without this specific verification from the command, the Virginia court is not required to grant the stay.
Duration of SCRA Stays
While the initial stay is mandatory for 90 days if the requirements are met, additional stays are at the discretion of the court. If you are on a long-term deployment, you may need to request an extension. The court will look for evidence that the material effect of your service continues and that you are making a good-faith effort to resolve the matter as soon as you are available.
When a Virginia Court May Deny a Stay
If a court finds that your military service does not "materially affect" your ability to participate, it may deny the request for a stay. For instance, if you are stationed at Quantico and have regular access to leave or can participate via video conference, a judge may decide that a pause is unnecessary. Shawna L. Stevens (VSB No. 65992) has practiced family law in Fredericksburg, Virginia for more than 20 years, providing the experience needed to argue these points effectively in local courts.
Preventing Default Judgments in Military Divorce Cases
A default judgment occurs when one party wins the case because the other party failed to respond or appear. The SCRA provides significant protections to prevent servicemembers from losing their rights in a divorce while they are unable to defend themselves due to military service.
The Required Attorney Affidavit
Before a court can enter a default judgment against any defendant in Virginia, the plaintiff must file an affidavit stating whether the defendant is in military service. If the plaintiff cannot determine the defendant's status, the affidavit must state that fact. If the defendant is in the military, the court cannot enter a judgment until it appoints an attorney to represent the servicemember's interests.
Appointment of Counsel for Deployed Servicemembers
The attorney appointed by the court under the SCRA has a limited role: they must attempt to locate the servicemember and determine if they wish to request a stay or contest the proceedings. This attorney cannot waive any of the servicemember's rights or bind them to a specific outcome without their consent. This ensures that a sailor on a ship or a soldier in a remote location is not divorced without their knowledge.
Setting Aside a Default Judgment
If a default judgment was entered while you were on active duty or within 60 days thereafter, you may be able to have that judgment set aside. To do this, you must show that you were prejudiced by your military service in making a defense and that you have a meritorious or legal defense to the initial claim. This petition must be filed within 90 days after your release from active duty.
SCRA Protections and Child Support Obligations
Child support in Virginia is calculated based on the gross income of both parents according to the guidelines found in Va. Code Section 20-108.2. While the SCRA can delay the hearing to set child support, it does not stop the clock on when those payments are due.
Child Support Calculations and Deployment
When a servicemember is deployed, their income often increases due to hazard pay, hostile fire pay, or tax-exempt status. Virginia courts generally consider all military pay and allowances as gross income, including Basic Allowance for Housing (BAH) and Basic Allowance for Subsistence (BAS). If a stay is granted, the court may still enter a temporary order for support to ensure the children are provided for during the litigation pause.
Modifying Support Orders While Deployed
If your income changes significantly due to a change in orders, you may need to file for a modification. Under Va. Code Section 20-108, any party can petition for a change in support based on a material change in circumstances. The SCRA can protect you from an adverse modification while you are away, but you should still act promptly once you are aware of the situation.
Retroactive Support and SCRA Stays
It is important to remember that child support in Virginia cannot be modified retroactively before the date of the filing of a petition. If you wait until your deployment is over to file for a reduction in support, the court cannot go back and lower the payments for the months you were away. Shawna L. Stevens PLLC advises servicemembers to communicate with legal counsel as soon as their financial situation changes.
Local Application: SCRA at Quantico and Dahlgren
The concentration of military installations in the Fredericksburg area means that local judges and attorneys are very familiar with the SCRA. However, the procedures for serving papers and obtaining command letters can vary between bases like MCB Quantico and NSF Dahlgren.
Serving Papers at Marine Corps Base Quantico
Serving a servicemember at Quantico requires following specific base access protocols. While the SCRA protects you from the consequences of failing to respond while incapacitated by service, it does not prevent a process server from reaching you if you are on-base and available. Coordination with base legal or your chain of command is often necessary if you receive notice of a legal action.
Working with NSF Dahlgren Command
Personnel at NSF Dahlgren may find themselves frequently traveling for testing or training missions. If a hearing is scheduled at the King George County Circuit Court while you are on mission, obtaining a letter from your commanding officer early is critical. The local courts in King George respect the demands of the mission but expect clear communication through the proper legal channels.
The Fredericksburg Area Military Community
The military community in Northern Virginia and the Rappahannock region is unique in its scale and complexity. Shawna L. Stevens PLLC serves families across all seven counties of the Fredericksburg region: Fredericksburg, Stafford, Spotsylvania, King George, Caroline, Orange, and Westmoreland. Shawna L. Stevens PLLC understands the interplay between the SCRA and local Virginia statutes, ensuring that your service to the country does not result in the loss of your legal rights at home.
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Protect Your Rights While You Serve
Military divorce involves complex federal and state laws that require an experienced hand. Shawna L. Stevens PLLC has represented military families in the Fredericksburg area for over 20 years, providing personalized strategies for those stationed at Quantico, Dahlgren, and Fort Belvoir. If you have been served with divorce papers or need to request an SCRA stay, contact our Fredericksburg office at (540) 310-4088 to schedule a confidential consultation.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I request an SCRA stay if I am not currently deployed?
Yes, you can request a stay if your military duties materially affect your ability to participate in the case, even if you are not deployed overseas. This might include intense training cycles, temporary duty assignments, or duty shifts that prevent you from attending hearings or meeting with counsel. The key requirement is that your commanding officer must certify that your duties prevent your attendance and that leave is not authorized.
Does the SCRA protect me from being served with divorce papers?
No, the SCRA does not prevent you from being served with legal process. It only provides protections once a legal proceeding has begun. If you are served with papers, you should contact a family law attorney immediately to determine if you need to invoke the SCRA to protect your rights.
How long does a stay under the SCRA last in Virginia?
An initial stay is typically granted for 90 days. You can apply for additional stays if your military service continues to prevent your participation, but these extensions are at the court's discretion. Shawna L. Stevens PLLC can help you document the ongoing material effect of your service to support an extension request.
Will the court appoint a lawyer for me if I am deployed?
If you are unable to appear in a Virginia court due to military service and a default judgment is being sought against you, the court must appoint an attorney to represent you before a judgment can be entered. However, this court-appointed attorney has a very limited role and is not a substitute for hiring your own counsel to handle the entirety of your divorce or custody case.
Does the SCRA apply to child custody cases in Stafford County?
Yes, the SCRA applies to all civil judicial and administrative proceedings, which includes child custody and visitation cases. If a custody hearing is scheduled while you are on orders, you can use the SCRA to request a pause in the proceedings to ensure you are present for such a critical decision regarding your children.
Can my spouse get a default divorce while I am stationed at NSF Dahlgren?
The SCRA makes it very difficult for a spouse to get a default divorce if they know you are in the military. They must file an affidavit regarding your military status, and the court will take steps to protect your rights. However, if you are aware of the case and choose not to respond or request a stay, you may lose those protections.
Does the SCRA apply if I am in the National Guard?
The SCRA applies to National Guard members only when they are called to active service for more than 30 consecutive days under federal orders (Title 10). If you are on state active duty, you should consult with a Virginia attorney to see if state laws provide similar protections.
How is military income calculated for support if the case is stayed?
Even if the main case is stayed, the court may still calculate support based on the Virginia Child Support Guidelines under Va. Code Section 20-108.2. This calculation includes your basic pay and allowances like BAH and BAS. The stay might delay the final trial, but it does not stop the court from issuing temporary support orders.
Conclusion
Navigating a divorce while serving in the military requires a deep understanding of how federal protections like the SCRA mesh with Virginia state law. The Servicemembers Civil Relief Act is a powerful tool for ensuring that your legal rights are not compromised by your commitment to your country, but it requires proactive steps and proper documentation to be effective. From the requirement of a commanding officer's letter to the prevention of default judgments, these protections are designed to provide a fair path forward for those on active duty.
Shawna L. Stevens (VSB No. 65992) has more than 20 years of Virginia family law experience and has assisted numerous military families in Fredericksburg, Stafford, and the surrounding counties. Her office at 307 Lafayette Boulevard, Suite 200, Fredericksburg, Virginia 22401, provides a local base of support for those connected to Quantico, Dahlgren, and Fort Belvoir. If you are facing a divorce or custody matter and need to understand how the SCRA applies to your situation, Shawna L. Stevens is ready to provide the compassionate and authoritative guidance you deserve. Contact the office today at (540) 310-4088 to schedule your confidential consultation.
Navigating a military divorce near Quantico, Dahlgren, or Fort Belvoir? With more than 20 years of experience in Virginia family law, Shawna L. Stevens can help. Learn more from an experienced Virginia military divorce lawyer or call (540) 310-4088 to schedule a confidential consultation.

